This lot has the meaning of "cause people to be different". It is an admonition not to be too attached to the people involved. When we do something and share our point of view with others, some will understand and others will not. You may feel anguished when you say the same thing in the same words but get polarized reactions. However, each person has his or her own personality, thoughts, and characteristics, and I am no different. Forcing one's own ideas on others does not work and often has the opposite effect. Take the time to understand the differences in perspectives and qualities of others. Only when you know the other person's pleasure or displeasure, can you make the next communication, and avoid accidentally touching on forbidden matters. In this way, you will be able to do more, and your success will be multiplied by half.